Oops Mr. Libra "forgot" his wallet at his apartment (he insisted I come in so I would have to sit in a hot car) clever way to get a female in a Libra males apartment. I'm an aries and I had a libra completely ghost me for years because ofwell I can't even remember what the problem was, but I tried to talk to her about it and she just closed the door in my face basically. Just dont bother try cheering up a Libran when they are in a bad mood. I am taurus with a highly aries dominance,and i just want to puke thinking about libras utterly shameful fakeness. Oh! 2 more kids but from 2004 till upcoming divorce cold as ice towards me crazy. im sorry manipulative, insecure to the point where they compete with their friends(trying to outshine me and gets moody cos it doesnt work), full of lies.. attention seeking. Second thought about this subjectwe all have negative traits, can't have the positive without the negative. She was very kind, gracious and loving when she met my children, giving them a few minutes and taking time to talk with them, and she remembered them when meeting her again the following year. Are looking for the meaning of life, the chronically lazy and manipulate the environment to work for them. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. Try to spend plenty of quality time with your Libra because they value one-on-one time and often aren't happy being alone. He's friendly in that way which confuses me now a lot. And I took my chances and went to Japan, and for my surprise he had prepared a space for me to sleep with improvised curtains, giving me total privacy. One of them that you should really fear about my dark side are my games that I put you in (you are my pawn and will always be until I get my revenge or I hear an apology if not you'll never be out of my loop until you're gone or I am). People themselves don't know what drives them. angry messages from friends and acquaintances without any apparent cause. When in discussion about this libra others who think they know her well will defend her and say she is gracious and unselfish. She will start to talk about God, religion, peace, until she gets her way again and start to manipulate others so much. 6.) We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real. Today he's converted into spiritualist religion, and I hope he's changed now although a few years back he let slip something about one of his sons who he said "he is very serious" and that "he is different from the younger one". RELATED: What Happens When A Libra Is Hurt? Came to help him. The women are backbiting, self-absorbed, jealous and very lazy! glil ou. If one looks at the long picture of a persons actions or decisions, they may fall more into one sign than others. While I am now guilty of generalizing also, I have to say that I know that depending on the time one is born under the Libra sign, as well as at which day in October can all play a part in a Libra being the exception to the rule as far as whether they exhibit classic Libra traits. Transmuting the energy behind the thoughts and words of your ranting into energies of Love and Light is as simple as asking the Universe to do it. If you've got a libra like that - RUN! And I suspect that he would sexually rape his ex-wife little sister when she was about 10 y/o and I was about 14, but then I never had any proofs of it nor she ever said anything about it, like I myself never did say a word with fear, when I was being raped for all those nights. What makes worse about him is that he is double faced and people can only see his bright side, that he is helpful to people, he helps my sister financially, he cares about my parents and is looking after them. I have yet to find a Libra female who is willing to be a real friend instead of being jealous and gossipy. Sometimes I think they overdo it when a shitstorm is about to occur and they purposely control conversations to avoid ill feeling. Due to all that sugar and junk they regulary eat. I, never classify anyone by gender, rase, ethnic aspect, sexuality or beliefs. This can harm their relationship with others. You will never be able to lie to us and get away with it.we can see the lies before they ever come out of your mouth. Keep it light and simple. Not even the same first letter. She finally left us alone and we did not see the kids until they became adults, many years later. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? I know a libra and she is very controlling. They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. Invite her somewhere she feels comfortable, and ensure that she feels that you are concerned about her well-being. Yet, that didn't stop Mr Libra from pursuing me and creating "DRAMA" by telling his friends I was "divorced" or "was getting a divorce". o que associo a cada signo aries: personalidade touro: inflexvel gmeos: ingenuidade cncer: terapia (precisam mt) leo: ignorncia virgem: sociopatia libra: inconvenincia escorpio: intimidade sagitrio: hide sadness behind beautiful smile aquario: metidos peixes: sonsos I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. Remember Libras hate conflict, but they will not tolerate cruelty happening when they can put a stop to it. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. Why do you people interact with us? They isolate themselves and start to detach, even though they still attempt to appear happy. Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, which means Libras prefer to use logic over emotion. Sadness is an important emotion and part of the human spectrum. They always try to be objective and rational, but they tend to be emotional and sensitive. You would think that, as a Venus sign they would be loving and all but in reality they are anything but like that. After the beginning of the year she started being more flirtatious. Peace. I don't know about everyone else but i was so stumped at myself this morning i resorted to blaming my sign. Did i learn a lot! A Libra woman thrives in entertainment, happiness, joy and elegance. I eventually had to reject him, "block" him and go "No Contact" with Mr. Libra 2. i ended up living a lot of my life with my grandmother because my mom would not stop physically abusing me. All are alike but different also. Be careful, because she carries a grudge like no other, so get on her good side or you will definitely regret it later. Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. And to think I still stood by her EVEN when I was admitted and discharged till her demented form comes devouring me inside out again!!! That's my fuel. My experience with libras is dark. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". Spot on Abbas- "They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot". My wife told me how she was teased a lot coming up and I was did all I could to show her how much I loved her. Very moody. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. When Libras are healthy they are funloving, charming and very intelligent. The thing about Libras is that public image is everything to them. At this time, she may begin to feel that she has been ignored by the people that she cares about most. I invited her to be part of a group, and they made fun of her "opening monologue" behind her back. When she feels that she is doubtful or uncertain about her decisions and her future, she may decide that the best course of action is to avoid people and conversations. They are popular works as well and everything that motivates them is to please themselves under the guise of providing the other. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. In person with me he followed me around my campus and was excessively "helpful". Libras are level headed and tend to think through all things rationally, but when their heart is broken, things can change. Most times anything short of that makes me feel unwanted. I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! We were close like family and talked a lot on the phone and only during work hours(my choice after we started dating in 2000). It has been two years and I am still hurting because I havent fully invested in myself. Sometimes physicall abuse they dont care if your 3 or 95but when they know if anyone else finds out they can get in trouble they know how make them shut up before they even think about it. Freaking true to the core. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. I am a libra my self and the main thing about being a libra is emotions libras value there emotions so much it is everything to them.when libras are sad it is so hard to get there trust.when a fight happens with there friends they will get so emotional that they become a monster they never want to even think about being but they dont realise. I remember my mum saying to me that he used to steal money from my dad, reason why he had to lock the drawer where he could keep his cash safe. He's won competitions on creating video games at an early age. Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. A lot of u on this site say too much. This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. Think i am not fake person. That would be my control issue. So, for example, when you tell someone that you are feeling happy or depressed, that can reference just about anything but only you know what those emotions really mean to you. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. If you showed fear or didnt talk back then she would consider you a friend. Often, the question "Why?" Wow! 1. She thinks I walked out on her? Think of Mahatma Gandhi. Get An Accurate Prediction Today, The Best (And Worst) Zodiac Compatibility For Each Sign. But the point is we are shit at emotions, because our minds are a major dumping ground, where is so much stuff that the stuff we say and the stuff we believe often go in different directions. That said, they can still become wound up like they're on the brink of a nervous breakdown, meaning their emotions are much bigger than what you see on the surface. We are intelligent, but we do need a lot of guidance. I stupidly had them pegged as pacifists, harmless COULD I BE MORE WRONG? They're divorced now. She seems to create alot of drama, does not have a good word to say about people, compains. Of course all us libra aren't like that and have EVERY negative trait. Don't ignore a Leo or disrespect us for too long! Librans can truly be cruel and selfish, manipulative and conniving. Please everyone be free and say what u will. If you dont want to be disappointed keep it flakey & light. Trying to keep everything balanced and perfect and then blaming myself if everyone isn't happy. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. I was a big fool. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. If you piss off or let a Libran down, do not both trying to: because they know what you did and your ability to do it again. Furthermore, Libra with Libra Mercury have Mercuries that are either in the morning phase, the evening phase, or combust. They just say: If thats what it takes. He ignores me somedays pays attention to me other days and never fully knows if he likes me or not lol. She buys and bribes people with any means. I am supposed to get along with this sign but it is the one I like the least. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. I want to build you up, only to make you look like a fool and encourage you to make the wrong decisions for my amusement. Seems to be written by someone who had a bad experience with a Libran and conluded that all Librans are like that one scumbag they once knew..horrible. They are also intuitive about the future and have an uncanny ability to read people for clues about what they may want or need. Cancer is often emotional, needy, and will even cry after insignificant events, even if they see how silly they were acting after the fact. Always. He was also court ordered counseling he got out of it too. Creating injustice and spreading unfairness tip the balance of the scales in which Libras will work tirelessly to set back right. she can do as she pleases. It sux to say but all these dark traits are traits I have observed in myself to some degree (some more than others) and I feel it growing. And I don't want to become a mother after all I read here , It's a big responsibility that I can't handle I'm very fragile and need someone to constantly take care of me. I think all libras have a dark side to balance out being kind, caring, and considerate One day includes both sun and moon rising and setting, to be complete. They are tooo real people to be fake. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. I used to not believe my own sister could be so mean spirited, but I wised up and will never trust my sister again. As well as the comments below. :( Bad ex maybe? This is also called sosiopathic. Why Do Libras Hide Their Feelings? They're prone to stomach aches and have feelings of separation from everyone around them, making them almost sick with sadness until they can calm themselves down. Libra These folks are really the sweetest! One of the typical tactic of abusers things he did was try to "isolate" me from my friends and family. My best advice for anybody is know thyself it is OK to not care or like people and not be friendly. Libra is a sign that exploits the very positive stereotype given to them in many articles, but and a big but. Do Libras move on quickly? This person adores the idea of being in a couple and sharing their deepest feelings with the person they love. 2. It was an extremely difficult task. But the best thing I sickening Libra is that they always find a patsy to do their dirty work, who come out worst in their name but unconsciously. All i can say is huge diff. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. Mother, father, uncle whatever..that's ridiculous. It is certain that she will appreciate having someone in her life who will give her a safe place to share the stresses that she is managing. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. The UKs WORST politicians are librans: Thatcher, Cameron and May. 2.) Being a librans family member might be pretty difficult they dont mind providing what they are supposed to provide for the family usually spoiling them, they dont mind spending quality time with their kids and wife. Mother problems? We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. Libra men are very indecisive. I honestly think they smell it. And I know that Libra's have dark side, and how deep it truly goes. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. I had left him. Thank you Sylvia for a well written article. I, possibly am the most un-materialistic human being. We often come of too dry and soulless, artificial, but for me it just happens because I am so numb from all the emotions and guilt about the most stupid little things.I've spent years trying to figure myself out, because I don't want to be full of shit, I want to be good and sincere and honest. He said she has to always be the center of attention, will continue to create major drama until she gets what she wants. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). Those with this sign have a very bold personality and don't hide their feelings (unless they feel in such a way that the other person would have the upper hand). TRY ME!!! They may share common general characteristics but that's it. So I understood that he meant "when I try some sexual assault on him ". True Librans dont like conflict or ugliness. She did nothing. I am the oldest daughter in my family I have 2 Libra sisters they only see their pain, their personal gain. Known for being indecisive and eager to please, this air sign is unlikely to ever initiate a breakup and very likely to mourn one long after it's over. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. i have never told her. controlling. Fast forward my boyfriend (Aries) with (Libra) moon broke up with me today. I'll take it all. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. 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